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10/9/11

Cakap tak serupa bikin

I've read a quarter part of " Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus " by John Gray. It was a recommendable book. Awesome I must say. It is something that do lies in us and have been there since our ancestors. It is just something great that God have created. The differs between men and women. The beauty of being different and how to cope with such differs, the end result will be just astonishingly brings out the blooms of  the love garden.



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" A woman under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood"

Ia menjelaskan di sini bahawa perempuan tends to talk about their problems.
Its a sign of relief if she can talk about it. Thus, she is expecting if there is anyone who cares to just listen on her mumbles.
Just listen.
Perempuan memang suka cakap pasal masalah instead of solving it first. But talk about it is a first step for a woman to solve her problems. She just wants to know if there is someone who cares to listen to her. Woman  is attention seeker in nature. ;)

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Although I am a female. Keep asking people to blurt out their problems and thoughts in order to feel peace and calm
I'm not doing it.

It is just so hard to talk about all of your inner problems.
It is just so hard to trust anyone.

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" So, how did you cope with all of the stress? You didn't tell anyone about it right?"
" I cried my lungs out"
"Oh, but why can't you just talk to someone?"
" I trust no one"
" How can I be any helpful to you if I don't know any of your problems?"
" Just listen to my cries. Will ya?"
" That's a big pleasure. I feel needed. *smiled*"

Not every girls do talk about their problems. Sometimes crying is just her way of expressing her emotions. She just can't tell it.
Cry and cry.
Can you listen to my cries without knowing what is going on in my head?
Knowing someone that is able to just listen to my tears and cries without know nothing about what is really going on is something priceless. It's like a heaven of blooming flowers.
Because that means that someone really cares for you and will be by your side no matter what.

Thank you for listening to my tears.

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Aku memang orang cakap tak serupa bikin. Nak percaya aku lagi tak?
Even a counselor needs to be counselled.

4 comments:

Abang Zam said...

adakah bermaksud bahwa men is noob?

CKB said...

NO. it means that both men n women does have differences in many ways such how they react to stress. Read the book for more understanding. ;)

Shukri Mohd Ali said...

semua orang macam tu kut. rasanyalah. hihihi.

Ms Ef Abas said...

I like!

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